D C O Y N
DCOYN – Don’t Cut Off Your Nose
The Phrase
“Don’t Cut Off Your Nose to Spite Your Face”
Has a Really Morbid Story Behind It
– by Trisha Leigh Zeigenhorn
With thanks to Did You Know Facts:
“Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face”
It may not be a saying people use all that often anymore, but most of us have heard it somewhere along the way, perhaps from a condescending teacher, a guilt-tripping mother, or some other well-meaning person born before or around WWII.
But where does the phrase come from in the first place? It’s pretty strange when you stop to think about it (so are a lot of things our grandparents said, am I right?). Well, I’m here to tell you that the actual story behind the saying is even weirder. Or more awful. I don’t know which.
Hold on to your hats…and your stomachs, I suppose.
By 867 A.D., Vikings had invaded England and sailed north, landing on Scottish shores. There they attacked Coldingham monastery, the largest in Scotland, and since the pirates were known not only for their love of plunder, but also for their lust for cruelty and destruction, the Coldingham nuns feared both for their lives, and, more importantly, for their honor.
I mean their virginity, natch.
One of the nuns, a St. Aebbe the Younger, assembled her sisters and suggested a way to avoid falling into the hands – literally – of the barbarians. And she walked the freaking walk, too: in order to make herself unattractive to potential rapists among the marauders, she sliced off her own nose and upper lip and wallowed in her blood.
The other women were stunned and inspired, quickly following suit. When the Vikings discovered the bloody women in the convent they backed away with some haste (we all know how unequipped men are to deal with bloody women).
Even though the stunt saved the nuns’ virginity, I am sorry to report that it did not save their lives. The Vikings simply locked them inside the building and burnt it to the ground.
So, there you go. There’s no point in cutting off your nose to spite your face, because Vikings will burn you alive (virgin or not) anyway.
Or something.
DCOYN – Don’t Cut Off Your Nose
How do I use “Don’t cut off your off to spite your face”?
With thanks to WikiHow
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You could use the phrase to warn someone they’ll only make their problems worse.
It’s a gentle reminder to a friend to keep their best interests in mind.
You could use it to calm someone down who’s upset and trying to get even.
You could use it to tell someone to pause and think before acting.
You could use it to encourage the person to focus on the bigger picture and their overall happiness.